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[quote=Anonymous][quote]... I am working on leading with a more feminine energy....[/quote] I can't believe no one picked up on this from the OP. Who pays for a date has nothing to do with 'energy'. It's more of a reflection of your upbringing or the dating/hospitality rules of your culture - and the dating rules within the US vary as we see on this thread. It doesn't make them wrong, it's just different. Recognizing customs differ, I always offer to split the cost when invited to do something. If I'm inviting, I only do so if I'm willing to cover the entire cost and take no offense if, at least on the first couple occasions, my date doesn't offer to contribute. What I look for, though, is reciprocity. We either alternate paying or my date does something reciprocal. It's when there isn't reciprocity that I recognize it isn't a good match. This is true whether it's a romantic interest or a friend. [/quote]
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