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Reply to "Of the people you know who have had affairs, is there a common them."
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[quote=Anonymous]Every affair, like every family, is unique. Tolstoy writes in Anna Karenina " All happy families are alike. All unhappy families are unique in their own way." I suggest that all those opining on here about what causes an affair. It is b/c the cheaters are bad people? Narcissists? Good people doing bad things? Bored in their marriage? Or looking for something missing in themselves? There are any number of reasons and I think all of these reasons require compassion not condemnation. Read Esther Perel's "The State of Affairs." Here is an excerpt: https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2017/10/why-happy-people-cheat/537882/ [/quote]
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