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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes! AND [b]my father does it-[/b] in particular he comments negatively about overweight people all - the - time. [/quote]

Yes, my dad Ford this! My mom does not do this. she’s a very kind person and not very judgmental at all; my dad is the judgmental jerk in their relationship![/quote]

My dad *does* this not Ford this [/quote]

My dad does this too — always has.  He feels the need to point out overweight people to us kids (when we were kids) and highlight how fat and disgusting they are.  I truly never understood it.  Who cares?   Why was he so obsessed?   He’s truly a jerk in many respects.  That was always clear to me though.  I thought about becoming a lesbian in my teens and twenties because patriarchy pissed me off so much.  But alas, that was not meant to be.  My DH is an absolute sweetheart amazing stand up guy tho.  [/quote]

I’m the PP you’re responding to and my dad is exactly the same way! Pointing out overweight people, truly a jerk in many ways, made me angry and I used to wish I was a lesbian too. I never thought my desire to be a lesbian had anything to do w my resentment toward my father but maybe that is why. Luckily I found a wonderful husband and have many male friends and don’t hate men or anything but I certainly went through a phase where not having to deal w men at all sounded very appealing.[/quote]

Haha.  I’m the first pp… honestly I think it was the realization that even being a lesbian wouldn’t rid my life of men, that soured me on the idea of going for it when I wasn’t overwhelmingly attracted to women as compared to men.  [/quote]

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