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[quote=Anonymous]I think 90% of in life issues can be solved by the husband taking a different approach with his parents. My parents don't make an issue if my husband goes late takes a nap after dinner because I don't allow them to. My parents don't expect thank you notes from my husband because I handle correspondence with my side of the family. My parents don't get offended if my husband doesn't come with me every time I visit because I don't make an issue out of it and would shut it down if they ever tried to. I've treated my husband as an equal in this marriage every time I have presented an idea or decision that my husband and I have made. It has never been well my husband doesn't want to do this or my husband needs us to do that. It has always been this is what we have decided for our family. I think if husband stood up to their mom's more and created and enforced some personal boundaries everyone would get along a lot better. [/quote]
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