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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Get over it. Seriously. They are your kids. You decided to have them. Grandparents are not obligated to be built in babysitters. They don’t have to keep living near you. You don’t own them just because they raised your husband.[/quote]

Ignore this poster op. Typical miserable internet dwelling dysfunctional keyboard warrior response. Hope you feel better about yourself soon pp.

I get it. I don't know if a lot of people had the great experience you did with your grandparents - I wish we all could. Your grandparents are wonderful and I'm glad to know they are still around making the world a better place. You feelings are valid.  It is sad when your family are disinterested in your lives. Your ils sound kind of awful. It has to hurt that they ignore the love you are sending especially if it comes from your kids. I'm sorry your family is dealing with this but as everyone has said, you can't change them. Your kids get the gift of love your grandparents gave you. [/quote]

I don’t think ops in-laws sound bad. They just seem to have their own lives and interests that they can now pursue since they are probably retired. Life is a finite amount of time for everyone. Her in-laws sound healthy and not enmeshed. [/quote]

I don't agree. The in-laws don't care about their family. Are you really trying to say that if people DO care, they are enmeshed? These gps just do.not.care. They are not lovely people.[/quote]

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