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Reply to "Do you fantasize and/or hope your spouse has died?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Oh, lord. I'm convinced tons and tons of people fantasize about this. You people being so judgmental...whatever. I love my husband, and I know I would REALLY be lost without him if he died, but after being together for 25 years...god....sometimes I wish I lived alone. I don't want to divorce him. So sometimes I have fantasies where this is taken out of my hands. And I am just...free. Would I really want him to die? Of course not. It would be awful. It would totally change my life. It would damage my kids irrevocably. But the fantasy where I am just on my own--without all the drama of divorce--yeah...sometimes I imagine it. It's a nice fantasy. Sometimes I also imagine us getting separate condos in the same building as empty nesters, but I don't think he'd go for it. My therapist told me that TONS of women in their 40s+ tell her that they really just want to be alone after so many years of marriage and childrearing.[/quote]
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