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[quote=Anonymous]"I think the bolded goes too far, both in characterizing many of the drinkers OP describes as being dependent on alcohol and also in their intentionality in organizing these situations. It sounds like most people the OP describes drink more heavily than is healthy, and that's absolutely normalized in our culture, more than it should be. Probably some of them do have alcohol use disorder. But I think it's more likely a mix of heavy drinkers who like to drink (and, hence, do it at any opportunity) and the aspect of parenting culture that emphasizes alcohol as a way to cope with stress."

You don't understand alcoholism, then. A major theme is creating situations where alcohol will be around, making sure that it happens one way or another. I'm not saying that most people in the group are doing this - many are just sucked into the fun or social pressure. But I bet $$$ that the folks suggesting the drinking or taking the lead bringing the alcohol are doing a lot more drinking at other times, hiding it, and struggling with it.

And no, bringing alcohol with you to soccer games or to take your kids to the park is not "normal." Every once in a while for a celebration or some other reason? Sure. But not on a regular basis.[/quote]

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