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Reply to "Do you fantasize and/or hope your spouse has died?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Recent widow here. He died unexpectedly, and part of my grief travels includes replaying arguments when I was less than skilled and revisiting moments when I wished he wasn't around. I can't say I wished he had died, but never envisioned the complications of divorce. Whatever the notion was, it is now laced with guilt that I ever thought of it. Our relationship was complicated and solid. If I could go back to the heated or sad moments and add a serving of appreciation instead of a fantasy of disappearance, I would.[/quote] NP. I'm sorry for your loss. I empathize with what you're going through. I've had moments of rage and a fantasy of disappearance is a coping mechanism. But I also know that if something were to happen, the guilt will be enormous. This is the human condition.[/quote]
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