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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She's a guest in your house and should be free to do as she pleases and make herself at home. You are being controlled.[/quote]

Wtf? Maybe for a day but not one week. No, it’s not your house, you’re a guest. Which means you ask before you use something and you clean up after yourself all the time. [/quote]

“Make yourself at home” is what people say to be kind and welcoming. It is not to be taken literally. Clean up after yourself to your host’s standards, replace items you use up immediately, ask to use things, be considerate of their space. You can’t actually treat someone else’s home like your own and leave dishes in the sink when you feel lazy, lounge on the couch all day watching tv with a snack plate etc. [/quote]

You are WRONG! This is her MOTHER in law. Does OP want to have a family or not? She should feel lucky she feels so comfortable in her home. She should be grateful to have a MIL who wants to help out. SO what if it's mesy. OP can clean up or her DH can clean up. OP is being too controlling here. She needs to lighten up and enjoy her MIL and let her DH enjoy hs mother.[/quote]

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