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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I appreciate the advice. Disappointed that he doesn't want to work on our marriage since I feel the majority of the tension comes from having a child with health issues and my own health. He likely spoke with the counselor without me since he found her and booked her and got her to side with him. I just feel betrayed and tricked into counseling when his agenda was to leave. Now he is saying that he is leaving (or kicking me out) because a trained professional told us to separate. The counselor doesn't even know about the health issues, we never got there. We're okay financially but that won't last with double the expenses. He paid for the mortgage but I paid for everything else including all food, groceries and kid activities, but somehow now its not my house. [/quote]

He paid the mortgage with marital money. You need an attorney to see how much equity you would get from the sale of the house, or if he wants to keep it, he will need to buy you would need to buy you out of 1/2 the marital portion.[/quote]

+1. You should consult an attorney, but paying the mortgage from his salary does not make it his. If he had an inheritance / separate account from before marriage, maintained it entirely separately and paid the mortgage from that account, then that might be another story. [/quote]

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