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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I hear what you are saying. Tactically, what can I do? I cannot force sign him up for a different therapist. There is an EAP program and I have also reached out to a therapist for myself. [/quote] You can leave. Depression or not, what you describe is domestic abuse. His therapist also appears to be completely toxic. I think you need EAP, a therapist, and a VERY good attorney. Obviously, doing nothing is not working and you have not once said that he is remorseful for his outbursts/violence. People who want to change their behavior but are having a hard time are still remorseful when they mess up. Leaving doesn't mean divorce. It's a chance for him to decide to get his act together - or not. You can support him, but you can't cure him.[/quote]
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