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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]43 y/o male. Wife and I have sex at most twice a year and it’s clear she isn’t into it. [b]Honestly she seems grossed out by my simple touch. [/b]She really does Doesn’t see the issue and won’t talk to counselor. She has told me I should jerk off more of it bothers me. I want to work on it but if she refuses to talk to a professional or even admit there is an issue what can I do? I’m starved for physical affection and it’s bothering more every day. I even googled chemical castration once because my libido was making me so unhappy. I know people say I should get a divorce. But divorce means sleeping in a different house than my kids, screwing up my finances and moving into a crappy apartment. Plus I’ve got the good job. She would be in a tough spot without me. It feels like a giant punishment for having some normal human desires. I see enough women on here who have the same problem. It seems like there should be a place where sex starved spouses can met to get some relief. I would kill for just actually getting to touch someone at this point. Yes I know it’s a bad option but in my situation they are all has options. [/quote] If that's the case then you're probably really bad in bed and most women will be grossed out too. Why dont you try being less selfish and self focused in the bedroom? [/quote]
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