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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]^ That’s not gaslighting. Gaslighting in this case would be telling her it didn’t happen, and no one is saying that.  [/quote]

You are essentially telling her that though, that the look she saw wasn't the look she saw it was something else it meant something else.[/quote]

No, it is telling her that even she saw that look and it meant that he was attracted to her, that he still very well may love and be attracted to his wife.[/quote]

So you're saying you know better than the wife who knows her husband and who experienced the look?

Let me ask you this  why are you insisting  pp can't be right?[/quote]

I'm not saying that she "can't be right." I'm just saying that she might be mistaken. All we had to go on was her statement that her husband looked admiringly at his colleague when she sang. If there is other information that makes clear that he doesn't love her, besides that one thing, then that would be a different story.

Regardless, it is not "gaslighting" to tell her that she might be drawing the wrong conclusions.

Why are you so sensitive about this? Are you this defensive any time someone suggestions you might have drawn the wrong conclusion?[/quote]

DP. When that poster saw the way her husband looked at a coworker, that was probably the moment she realized there was a problem. She didn’t give us the play-by-play of everything that happened after she noticed “the look,” but I wouldn’t be surprised if that look wasn’t the end of the story.[/quote]

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