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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I think you need time to decide. But I agree, I would get a post-nup, both bc he needs to have some stake in the outcome as well and understand what he’s facing and bc divorce is usually disadvantageous to women, so take car of yourself. Then I would seek counseling, both individual and couples. He needs to work out why he cheated. You need to figure out whether you want to stay in whatever your marriage becomes; even in the best case scenario it is forever changed. I think in individual therapy you can work through the possibility that he had a full blown affair. Everyone thinks their husband is the nice guy, but it doesn’t matter, he shattered your trust. You don’t need details, but you need to figure out how YOU will move forward and what that looks like. I agree - id you are going to police him the rest of your marriage, it isn’t worth it. [/quote]
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