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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know why you're attacking the OP for not wanting kids right now. She may not actually want them at all but not have realized that yet. I have friends in their late 40s / early 50s who don't have kids and now they never will.

They were ambivalent about it in their 20s and 30s. Relationships ended over it. They are single or dating but happily childless. [/quote]

No one is attacking her. She does not know what she wants. If she wants to be happily childless and dating in her 40s and 50s then she should not be back with her ex. She seems to be going down that path anyways but she does not seem to know that.[/quote]

She seems pretty damn clear about what she wants. I guess it doesn’t fit in the little box of needing a baby by 30. Gasp but Some women actually want more out of life than a husband and a baby. Maybe she stays single, maybe she meets a man in a year or two and has kids. She is smart not to have kids before she is ready. What if she ends up hating her life and resenting her husband? I wasn’t ready for kids at 30 and broke up with a boyfriend because of it. I met my husband at 32 with two kids at 35 and 37. No kids right now doesn’t mean no kids ever.

You DON’T get to tell women when to have kids. Women have more value than being a wife and a mother. Sorry your outdated thinking hasn’t helped you see that. Be gone back to be a servant for your husband. [/quote]

You are the worst kind of person to advice anyone. You think there is only one way for women and that’s your way. You are a truly a horrible person. [/quote]

What? You’re the only one saying OP doesn’t have any options other than to have kids because she will be single forever if she leaves her boyfriend. You sound delusional. [/quote]

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