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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The people saying OP needs to stay so her kids don’t need to care for dad are insane.

My mom has a personality disorder and estranged all of her kids. No one is going to take care of her, no one even talks to her anymore, and everyone knows that’s 100% her fault.

Don’t worry, OP, your kids will see right through him. My mon refused to come to any of my milestones like college graduation because it was “too emotionally difficult” for her to be around my dad. I saw it for what it was, manipulative and vindictive.

Would any of you expect your own child to stay in an unhealthy marriage and remain deeply unhappy their entire lives? Probably not. [/quote]

Nobody is saying she needs to stay.  People are saying it will be difficult for the kids, they may resent her for a while, and she will likely be splitting up family time.[/quote]

No, it's the same ACOD posters who have stalled at age 7 and think the whole world revolves around them and their fee-fees.  OP is aware of the challenges and should be applauded for getting out of a toxic situations not badgered into staying because of Thanksgiving.[/quote]

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