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[quote=Anonymous]This is a lesson for you on how to be alone. It's a talent and it's something you need to learn. Imagine you have kids and become single you can't fall apart or expect others to pick up the pieces. I think the best thing that can happen to a person is a big break up. You should see a therapist but not for long, maybe 5-6 meetings to work out how to be alone. You need to join a gym, find a meet up, do yoga, join a golf club, take kayaking lessons, learn rock climbing (EarthTreks) etc. Get an instrument and learn how to play using youtube. As for your sister... it's her husband not her and she has an obligation to him 1st. Also, some day your H will ask you to do something that will be unpleasing to your family and you will expect them to be supportive. Call you sister and ask her how many times a week is a good number. Also, why don't you offer to drive the kids once a week in the evening. When you go, bring dinner, drive the kids to practice, babysit, do the dishes. What are you doing that makes you something other than more wok?[/quote]
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