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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What is grey rocking? I actually don't know.
From what I can tell from your post, your SIL is a bully, essentially and you keep begging her for more cold treatment and allowing her to dominate you and you feel fearful of her. For a good reason, as you pointed out it will be even more uncomfortable if you stop trying.
But, that is all in your head, it is clearly already very uncomfortable and you need to stop giving in to her pathetic insecure bullying and attitude and start ignoring her. That might have the desired effect on her, seeing that she is not able to shake you up.
Bcs that is her aim, to make you feel small and weak and pathetic. So, turn the tables on her.[/quote]

Grey rocking is a technique that experts recommend using to avoid conflict with narcissists and people with borderline personality disorder. Imagine having a relative who always finds fault with your life. You want to make yourself as uninteresting as possible. That way they have nothing to react to.[/quote]

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