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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, I don’t fire off incessant questions or talk all.the.time. More like try to join the conversation by asking follow up questions or the typical hey how are you type things. I’ll sit in silence no problem but if I don’t engage at all at some point seems to me like I am being rude to her. Maybe that’s my hangup and I should just be more aloof? [/quote] All you have to do is accept her answers and move on. Don't keep on pumping her for more info or for more engagement. It isn't working. Expect short answers and move onto the next family member after the short exchange. She will probably be relieved and you won't feel like you are failing. For whatever reason, she just doesn't want to engage much. I find it's very common with many people in this area, they aren't interested in being friendly to everyone and don't care. Accept it and move on OP. There is nothing more you can do. [/quote]
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