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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I[b]f you want this and they are your special people and you can feel equal amongst them yes, sure why not.[/b]

I know of 2 throuples in the UK. One is actually a gay male couple who have had babies with a straight female and they all live together, 3 adults, 2 kids.

The other was 2 straight guys who lived with 1 woman. It was less equal and one of the guys moved out and left them. The couple who were left were shaky for years after but stayed together.[/quote]

This is my feeling, if everyone is on the same page, why not?[/quote]

The two examples the PP above uses really aren't very helpful.

The OP is talking about how she's a woman, seeking a straight couple where she would have sex with the man both for pleasure and to get pregnant, and would be friends and a sort of co-parent/support person with the wife.

The examples above are not that type of arrangement. One is two men and a woman, all of them straight, and it did not work out (whatever "less equal" means).

The other example is a gay couple with a straight female to have and help raise their children. The sexual aspect there would be that the couple is having sex with each other but neither is having sex with the woman except to procreate, and maybe not even then, if they use artificial insemination. The sexual jealousy aspect some have discussed here wouldn't be present in that arrangement (at least, not in the same way). I do wonder what legal arrangements get made in those cases; if the couple breaks up and the woman also moves out, do the children then have to shuttle among three different households for custody purposes, especially if both men's sperm was mixed in insemination so both feel they are equally the father of every child? Some couples do that -- mix both fathers' sperm for insemination. [/quote]

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