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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm the OP. Is there any wiggle room allowed for me here? Am I allowed to be upset that I have to go straight from daily phone calls to no contact at all for 2 weeks? That's a drastic change from what I'm used to and I just wish there was some middle ground for compromise. I wish that DILs on here remember that yes they are married and the wife should definitely be the most important woman in her husband's life but his mother doesn't go out the window just because he is married. My feelings still matter too. [/quote]

No you don’t have room to be upset.

It’s insane and over the top.

Google enmeshed relationships. This is a wake u call that you are overstepping.

Do you have a therapist you can talk to.[/quote]

There is room for you to be upset, sad, whatever.  Those are your feelings and you have the right to feel them. You also have a brain, and you should use it to subdue those feelings. The point is to acknowledge that it’s ok for your son not to speak to you for two weeks, especially since no one is mad at the other.

You need to understand that’s ok for him to do so, and regardless of how you feel you must respect his decision. And if it is her decision, respect their marriage.

Don’t make your child resent you.

Love to you op. [/quote]

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