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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP and yes, that is exactly my thought. People cut back to save up for a ring all the time. For the PP above, we are on separate salaries and I do not spend on bars/restaurants beyond my means. He does, bc he knows he will be making more later.[/quote] Hmmm. Interesting. I do not think anyone should go into debt for a ring. I would be turned off by my partner spending excessively on himself and not even considering cutting back on discretionary spending to get me an engagement ring. If he’s going on golf trips, eating our every night, out buying the latest electronics and blatantly refused to save for a ring because it’s not as important to him as doing things he likes to do that would be a red flag. [/quote] But, I should add, the bigger red flag is him spending money he doesn’t have yet. [/quote]
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