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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think this is a fairly common occurrence among:

-Men
-From previous generations
-Who leave when their kids are adults or at least in HS

Often they either felt pressured into the first marriage and no longer felt like making it work once the kids were mostly raised, or they had a midlife crisis. Then, being men who were accustomed to being taken care of, and by then in their 50s or so, they stuck with the AP, whether truly happy or not, for the... well, ultimately the eldercare.

That sounds cynical AF, but if you comb through the responses here, you see that describes a lot of those listed.

The one that came immediately to my mind was in that category-- DH's BFF's father. He was born in the early 1940s, married in the late 1960s. He had 4 kids and left the family for his AP when the oldest was 27 and the youngest was 17. He was about 57 when he left-- the AP was in her 40s. He's been with his AP for ~23 years now. I imagine he'll stay-- he's 80 now.[/quote]

Yep.  [/quote]

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