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Not every marriage or committed relationship is a completely open book with full transparency between partners.

Here’s an informal poll. If you are in such a relationship, do you have secrets from your spouse or partner about any of the following:

1. Porn consumption 
2. Solo satisfaction (not involving spouse)
3.  Sexual fantasies

Would also be interested to hear why, if yes, you choose not to be completely open and transparent — and how those who can answer no to all 3 Qs got to that point of openness with spouse.

Any info on age, gender, length of relationship would also be welcome.

This is NOT a question about affairs.[/quote]

Guy here.  Married 18 years.  I do/did all 3 of those but [b]I quit porn (it’s just not good for guys).[/b]  No, I don’t tell her about them.  If I had to guess, she doesn’t do #1 but does read nasty romance novels, probably doesn’t do #2 (she’s a super busy type A career person and wasting minutes just isn’t her thing).  She probably does have #3 - who doesn’t?[/quote]

It's[b] bad for lots of guys but perfectly fine for many[/b].

If it was bad for you and you quit then great though. [/quote]

It is until it isn’t.  It was fine more me at first but caused issues for me.  Glad to have it behind me.  If my wife were into it I’d be down to watch it.  But not interested solo.
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