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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Sex.  Companionship.  Physical need.  Emotional need.

This will shock woman, but men need attention also.  Most often husbands cheat because they are lacking something at home: emotional support/attention, physical need, etc.  it's sad generally people think men don't need these things.  Thus the issues.[/quote]

Attachment issues from their childhood.  Newsflash: many were getting all of that, including sex.  The need for external validation in large amounts stems from childhood wounds.  Quit victim blaming.[/quote]

What victim?[/quote]

The one getting lied to, gaslit and exposed to diseases without their consent.[/quote]

Not all wives and marriages are great.  Look at all the posts from unsatisfied men. Some women are just not great wives -
Lazy, nag, never want sex, spendthrifts, emotionally cold. Why is this woman always the victim?  Seems like husband cheating is karma. Not all wives are victims. [/quote]

Then get a friggin divorce.  [/quote]

+1000.  End of thread.  I don't why this stupid argument keeps on recurring when the solution is just divorce.  It's not easy to go through it but the right solution.  Who cares if monogamy is difficult for you or you believe your wife isn't doing x/yx/z in a marriage---go fu..ing divorce her.  It's the selfish people who post on here to justify cheating because. ...pick a reason.   Who cares about your reasons?  [/quote]

When you see grey divorces I assume this is the case. Men hang around till the youngest leaves for college then they divorce. So men divorce but cheat until the kids are out of the house. Seems fair, why should the kids have to suffer the consequences of divorce just because one parent decides they are done having sex?[/quote]

The consequences of divorce are lifelong.[/quote]Not really.  My divorce has barely affected my life except in a positive way.[/quote]

No, hon.  Lifelong for the children.  You missed it.[/quote]My toxic marriage was the worst thing for my children.  Getting divorced and keeping them with me-not easy as a man-was the best thing.  I only regret I didn't do it sooner.[/quote]

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