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Reply to "Plans for supporting elderly parents causing relationship issues??"
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[quote=Anonymous]There are already red flags concerning his parents and family. This will only get worse. You ask how to put boundaries in place, with some people they will not put boundaries in place with their family or parents. Yes your guy is nice but it is HIM who needs to put those boundaries in place with his parents because they will try to take his money from him and by the sounds of it, he will continue paying. You have been warned. This will affect you and your retirement together so either accept this will happen but don't think you will be able to change him in his 60's. The problem will go away when they die. If you are not legally getting married and share bills then simply keep your finances separate completely and just live together however at some point he will come to you for help when he is financially ruined. He has made poor choices his whole life and nothing will change that now.[/quote]
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