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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Recovery period from 3 days to 6 weeks before you can do any chores?  What kind of surgery is this?  Perhaps your doctor can prescribe a rehabilitation facility for your convalescence.

Honestly, OP, I think you are in a very anxious state. It will all work out.  Uber Eats or chicken nuggets are okay for this time period. Good luck with your surgery.[/quote]

This is Op following up- the recovery timeframe is loose because the surgery partially involves displaced endometrial tissue and depending on where it is and the extent of its attachment there will be more tissue to remove and potentially a much longer recovery. I’m not anxious, just realistic about the potential impact to my body. Surgery involving the pelvic floor and the external anatomy where incisions need to be made is a big deal because I can’t be bandaged and even sitting up puts pressure and adds swelling to the wound. Constipation would impair my recovery because it could cause swelling or hemmoraging, which is why healthy food and hydration matter.  Uber eats and chicken nuggets are fine but I literally can’t get to the door to fetch them for myself and would like to eat a bit more healthily to speed my recovery.[/quote]

If your husband really cannot be bothered to pick up a bag of salad and a rotisserie chicken to feed his wife, then you have a much larger problem.

But really, your concerns are so over the top that you need to figure out after surgery why you are so anxious. The idea that you will get an infection of the bathroom isn’t scrubbed for two weeks is nuts.[/quote]

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