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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I'm drafting the terms of the separation. I want a week on/ week off schedule where we switch off caring for the kids, pick up and drop off, etc. When it's his on week, he has all responsibilities - cooking, cleaning, pick up, drop off, homework duty, etc.

For those who separated, how do you handle afternoon sports with this sort of schedule? Is it fair to say, when it's your ON week, you have to be responsible for all kids after school activities without my help?

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Yes, that's reasonable. People do things differently, but many parents have a "when you have custody, you do everything" policy. Given the dynamic you have with your husband, I highly recommend a clean division. Otherwise he may take advantage of you and you may have to wind up communicating with him (he might be running late at work and text you and ask to pick up the kids for example). [/quote]

It depends on the couple. You can do it that way. We don't. There are activities I want to take the kids to myself and I do that regardless of whose week it is. We also have a midweek night with the opposite parent on off weeks.[/quote]

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