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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have a small but close group of friends that go back 20 years. Kids friends, grew up together etc. We go out on occasion but have each others' backs. Text, keep in touch, live close by. I had surgery 10 days ago. Have not had one of them check in on me. People are busy, I get that, but how long does it take to send a "how are you doing?" text? [/quote] I had a bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction this summer and the same. Actually, the people I would have least expected it checked in, brought thoughtful care packages, etc. My 2 best friends: not a meal, not an offer of help to do anything, one sent no texts/calls/emails, the other stopped by with flowers once for about 5 min. As I continue to rehab and heal, this entire process has been eye opening on many levels. This being one of them. [/quote] I can’t imagine not being there for a friend going through that. I’m sorry but there’s just no excuse.[/quote]
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