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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I love my wife and have been happily married to her for 20+ years, but the truth is she's dumb as a rock. I try to focus on her good qualities (very pretty, sense of humor, fashion sense, etc.) and it helps me to appreciate her for what she is. When I want to have some sort of intellectually stimulating experience, I either read a book or watch a documentary (without her).[/quote] +1 except my situation is being married 18 years and her good qualities include not driving me crazy and in gemeral keeps a simple non-complicated life so home life is harmonious.[/quote] NP. Interesting perspective. Sounds like both of you are happy. How do you envision your life when you are retired? Would you have anytime at all where you engage each other in discussions or go to events after which you could have interesting discussions? Sounds like it's not important to you both and you would rather have a wife who is pretty/fashion sense who makes your life easier rather than someone who can challenge you more intellectually. Sort of an interesting perspective to me and maybe it's common but I don't see it in my circles as often (not to say I don't see it at all but not too frequently). [/quote]
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