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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP I have tried to work things out. Listened with sympathy and empathy. Obtained resources for him - counseling, books. Suggested he take a solo trip to clear his mind. Took care of him when he got sick recently. He’s literally in love with her and has feelings of love for me. What do you do when your DH has given his heart away? I am trying to figure that out. [/quote]

Does he have any close friends, who are healthier and also married who he could talk to? Friends who could say, what are you doing? And yet listen to his struggle and be there for him while talking reality and the fact that they too have had struggles in marriage. It does not mean you have to act on your crush..[/quote]

No guy is going to tell his guy friend "yeah I have a huge crush on this woman who is not my wife but nothing physical is happening" - his friend will laugh at him for being an idiot.[/quote]

Again...we are really talking about more than a "crush." Some men actually can talk to each other about deep hard things...after my husband's emotional affair came to light his best friend said simply "why didn't you talk to me?". They did eventually talk more about it...and it helped my spouse enormously. He's still a good friend. I guess if your friends would laugh at you or they are fing around themselves then you're right, you should probably pass on talking to your guy friends.[/quote]

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