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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My daughter went to K and 1st with this kid and they became friends.  I met the kid's dad a few times and found him generally attractive.  Nice.  Friendly.  In good shape.  The usual.  Then COVID-19 came and of course everyone was at home for 1.5 years.  Anyway, this fall school started and I noticed his daughter wasn't at the school anymore (well, my daughter noticed she wasn't in the same class).  Fast forward to this past week and I'm dropping my daughter off for track camp and he's one of the lead coaches!  I see his daughter there and our kids start talking.  Then we spoke for a few minutes and I felt like I was around an old college crush or something.  Now that he's my daughter's coach he's even hotter!  I can't stop thinking about him.  I know that's bad.  Very bad.  But, why is he hotter now just because I found out he coaches?  I seriously have not stopped thinking about him since yesterday.  Help.[/quote]

Are you hotter than his wife?

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OP here.  Yes, I am.[/quote]

HAHAHAHA. OP, I have news for you.  We get it, you think he is as good as yours, and if your family is blown apart why shouldn't somebody else's be? He's not interested.  He is nice to everyone, but he is a real arsehole behind closed doors.  His family of origin (all) has multiple problems, including untreated anger issues and depression, which are the least of it. Well before I existed.  You think you can change him.  Good luck with that.

On second thought  - if you are that adamant, you are made for each other, and will get everything you ask for, and more.  He and his issues are someone else's problem, at last.  Don't count on "his" money though, because it is not his, it is mine and came from my family. He and his family are leeches. Surprise!  "Hot", indeed! [/quote]

Did you even read the opening post?  You people need to stop making things up and reading into things.  All she said was she was thinking about him.  She said nothing of them be partners or whatever.  People like you just want to hate on others, and if there's not enough there to hate on you just make things up to hate on.  You're no better than politicians who lie just to get attention.  Take a lesson in reading.[/quote]

She's comparing himself to his wife that's beyond crush and fantasy territory.[/quote]

Exactly.

WHACKO. [/quote]

The only "whacko" here are the people making stuff up so they can hate on someone else.  Feels like Congress in here.[/quote]

She literally replied that she's hotter than his wife. That shows that she's already allowed herself to make comparisons, to put herself into the she's better category, that's the   kind of thing that takes a harmless crush into inappropriate flirting and affair territory.

Most married adults have had a crush on someone else at some point. It's not a big deal and this most people don't bother writing a thread about it. If you get to thread writing territory it's like you are obsessing over the person and making it into more than it should be.[/quote]

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