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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Off the thread but after my divorce I didn’t date for two years because of Covid and this weekend I will have my fifth date with a very nice guy. On our fourth date we did have some very serious kissing but I held back from doing anything more but I don’t think I will hold back this weekend. I haven’t had sex in five years and I haven’t had first time sex in 23 years. He doesn’t know that so do I tell him or just see what happens? I’m very fit so I don’t worry about my body but I definitely have performance anxiety. [/quote]

I wouldn’t say anything. If you get into a heavy kissing session just reach for his belt buckle and he will get the message. Just avoid nervous giggling when he starts removing your clothes. [/quote]

I had a second date last week and he started giggling while we were kissing. It was... odd.[/quote]

He either really likes you or is a serial killer. [/quote]

Not sure I like those odds!  :lol:

He's super interesting so I think I will give him a chance. Hopefully I won't die.[/quote]

When I got together with the boyfriend I have now (who is wonderful) I hadn't had sex in EIGHT years. And first time sex with another person in... 20 years? I did tell him during the first time we made out, etc, and I was glad I did. It is not a bad litmus test of a person to see how they respond.... We had sex for the first time a few days later and I felt a lot more comfortable having talked about it. [/quote]

I was in a similar situation and I told him first. He was really cool about it. He kept asking if it was ok as we got started, which I appreciated. [/quote]

Also, if you are reading the other posts, he is the one who said he was just a passenger in my car in the oil change post. So, he gets lots of kudos today. :-)[/quote]

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