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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think that in general, looking put together is the same regardless of weight. The difference is that thin people can get away with not looking put together, whereas overweight women cannot. If I go someplace like Home Depot in a regular t-shirt (not a cute cut one) and cargo shorts I look like I'm auditioning for a role as a janitor in a play. I do this sometimes, but I hide behind my mask and hope I don't run into anyone I know.

For those who are overweight, much depends on body type. I'm a classic hourglass. As I put on weight, the glass just becomes thicker. I can end up looking like a cartoon character if I'm not careful. But some women are apples, and their top part can become too big relative to their legs as they put on weight. So, each needs a different type of approach in terms of fabrics and cuts. And some of us are both short and chubby, like Ina. We actually look "small" to normal size big tall people. Weight up high on the body, especially if you don't have a waist, seems bigger than weight on the butt and thighs.

No matter where your extra weight is, you need tailored clothing. It's very, very rare to find pants and jacket sleeves that are the right length for heavy women, especially if you're short.

Don't do things like wear extra high heels with narrow heels. It looks stupid to see all that weight teetering on a spindle and you risk hurting yourself. The extra weight is already putting too much pressure on your knees and ankles.

Do not walk around with rolls that are exposed. If that means you put a linen jacket with 3/4 sleeves over a tee, then do it. Don't bare your rolls to the world. Same for funny looking skin like under the upper arms. No muffin top! Choose pants with a higher rise to avoid this. It's rare to find a top with sleeves above the elbow that is flattering if you're chunky, so default to 3/4 sleeves.

Do not try to look sexy by exposing your chest skin with anything low cut. Same for short skirts, even if your legs are nice. Use form fitting fabric that is sturdy for that effect, like the African American women's blouse with the white wide legged pants in the pics someone shared. Or wear a pencil skirt in a sturdy fabric to show off a nicely shaped albeit large booty. In the winter you can wear a short skirt if you pair it with tights and it doesn't make you look off balance.

Don't wear all black, gray, and or brown. You'll look like you're trying to hide.

Do not EVER leave the house in leggings without at least a few inches of your top hanging below the bottom of your butt. Only super fit people can do that, and even they shouldn't, IMO.

Shoes in pretty colors can be a way to add personality and flair. Plus, if you're hoping to lose weight, you can spend your money on them and still be able to wear them if you go down a few dress sizes.

And remember that some of the women who are most cherished and adored by their partners are overweight. You deserve to feel gorgeous and be treated that way, regardless of your weight.

Thanks PP. this is one of the most positive comments and helpful- I have read on DCUM

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