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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I judge women who marry only for money. [/quote]

To me I don't care if they married for money or not, or because they are kind or supportive or funny or handsome. That's your business.

What bugs me is when women speak and behave as though marrying a man with good qualities is evidence that they are more deserving. This is as bad when you're talking about wealth as kindness. Does any woman deserve an unkind partner? Does anyone deserve to struggle financially? To have an unsupportive partner? No. No one deserves that.

So when women act like their husbands are rewards or prizes for "winning", it irks me. I know amazing women who have had to leave abusive relationships, who have married men with gambling problems or mental health issues that didn't emerge until years later, who turned out to have controlling or abusive family members that they are now stuck with. Those women didn't deserve any of that -- it's just life sometimes.

If you married "well", whatever that means to you, count your blessings and shut your mouth. You got lucky and if you don't see that, better watch out for when bad luck sneaks up on you too.[/quote]

This is really interesting. I am the one you quoted (I judge people who marry only for money) and I also agree 100% with what you are saying. 
Serious question, what do you think about women who don't care about how loving or much they love/like their partner, but only care about social status and wealth, and not if their to-be partner is a good person with whom they have a genuine connection? And then after the marriage that person is not a great guy, workaholic, etc. etc. and they don't have a good marriage and the woman is unhappy b/c she still doesn't love her husband?[/quote]

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