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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Wow, surprised so many "no" responses.

Sure, I would be ok with it. If she is going to cheat, she will do it at some point[/quote]

+1. Sounds like there are a lot of fragile marriages here. Do you trust her or not? Sounds like a "no" for OP. [/quote]

+2[/quote]

I could never live with being constantly suspicious of my spouse. If he cheats, then he cheats and the trust is broken but it’s his job not to cheat, not my job to run around trying to stop him. Dcum always jumps to cheating as though everyone would obviously do this. Lots of sad marriages: [/quote]

Cheating is 100% about opportunity. Don’t fool yourself.  Add in alcohol (or weed) and vacation or trip alone with opposite sex and even people that would never do something, often do cheat.

Smart, pro-active people never put themselves in a situation where that possibility exists.  I had a guy when we lived in Barcelona that was part of our International friend group that had an obvious heavy crush on me.  When my spouse had to go out of town for the weekend, this guy heavily pressured me into coming and hanging out with him and his equally gorgeous friends.  I lied and said I was going somewhere for the weekend.  My spouse also will not put himself in situations alone with women overnight, etc.  That might mean going back to the hotel room alone instead of hanging out with the female co-worker drinking post-dinner.

It’s not policing your spouse.  It’s being considerate and aware and policing yourself.[/quote]

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