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[quote=Anonymous]A trip like this doesn't necessary start off as a plan to cheat, but the vacation relaxation away from stresses of "normal life" and close proximity to someone known and trusted can create an opportunity to act in a way that she wouldn't normally. All the rigid thinkers on here will parrot the "either a cheater, or isn't" black:white dichotomy but life is obviously more complicated than that. Someone who would never be unfaithful may make a mistake if all stars are aligned (especially when you throw alcohol into that mix). Even if she doesn't cheat on the trip - she may come back mad and resentful at you knowing she could have cheated... just take the time off and go with her and make it a nice family vacation where she gets to hang out with her dude friend but comes home to your bed every night. Don't say any of this to her. Just say you are coming too. If she says she doesn't want you to - then you have a real problem....[/quote]
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