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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]hmm OP what could go wrong if you reach out or say hi by elevator or ask how are you? Sometimes it’s people who are sad and depressed and want to end their life that have this energy I concur with some of these previous posters. It’s a coworker maybe it won’t be weird if you reach out but I’m a casual is everything okay?

I also saw a girl in one of our AP classes in high school she was there to catch up on notes from a different class and felt just …sad around her and that maybe I should have said hi. I didn’t say anything and a few days later she killed her self.

It was a different feeling that ugh this guys shady. [/quote]

OP here. I had a similar experience as you in college, the only other time I feel a strong sadness or heaviness around someone, and the guy ended up taking his life not long after, and I have wondered if things may have been different had I said hello. Having dealt with depression myself I know first hand how all-consuming those feelings of despair, hopelessness, and not being able to see through another day can be.  I am sensitive to that. I didn't feel scared snd I don't get the sense that he's dangerous.  I have senses that something is not quite right with him, but nothing bad. But the other day was just so  heavy and so dark , and I felt it in my soul.

It's funny you mention reaching out because prior to this incident I have felt that I should, but I'm, not a particularly social person and couldn't think why I should because we just don't interact at all  that much, but maybe this is a message that I should come out of my comfort zone and reach out, maybe save a life.

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