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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Her husband had this cabin before they married, and enjoyed the cabin and thought that his bride-to-be did too.  Now that they’re married he’s finding out she lied about her enjoyment of it. If OP had just said “something about that place gives me an allergic reaction, what should I do” the answers would be different.  But it’s obvious by her OP that there’s nothing about it she does like.  If it were just the allergy issue that’s one thing but she’s using that as an excuse because she’s bored there,[b] doesn’t like the outdoor activities (which it seems her husband really enjoys and is sharing his enjoyment with the kids[/b]).  She doesn’t like the layout, the lack of curtains, the lack of doors or the “old plumbing” (whatever that means).  She just flat out doesn’t like the cabin, allergies or no allergies.  And I’m sure it frustrates her husband who thought she really liked the place since she pretended to prior to their marriage. [/quote]

It's one thing to accommodate a cabin trip once in while dating. But if you don't enjoy the same activities as your spouse and just pretended to like them while dating is the whole bait and switch maneuver.  Then both spouses wonder why the other one changed after marriage.

Women pretend to like things while dating.  Then drop the gavel once they are married.

A golfer is going to still golf, a gamer is going to still game, a fisher is going to fish.  Either let them know ahead of time you won't be participating in said activity, or prepare to keep the the accommodation.  This isn't about the cabin.[/quote]

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