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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why on earth did you pretend to like the cabin when you were dating?  I’m team husband here because you knew what you were getting into when you married him.  He probably thought how great it was that the woman he loved enjoyed the outdoors as much as he does.  Bait and switch OP.

In regards to the allergic reaction, that’s an issue.  But like others have said before it’s not expensive to outfit this place to be more comfortable by putting in curtains and doors.  It takes very little effort and money.  The allergic reaction thing?  On top of all the other reasons you have this place?  I’m not sure I’m buying it.[/quote]

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She and the DH can "outfit this place to be more comfortable" all they want, but allergies may also be to the rural area where it's located, as well as the mold. She and her DH cannot control what's growing outdoors in that whole area. Air tends to move around, you know, and flow in from outside those cleaned walls, and past the curtained windows.

I'm sick of you PPs who insist this is really no big deal, requires "very little effort and money" and that OP is lying or claiming allergies solely because she doesn't want to go. I'm wagering none of you has ever had to spend substantial time in a building or an area that made you sick.

Her DH INSISTS she go or he pouts.

And those of you posting how she "lied" to him when she said she liked the cabin years ago --good God, none of you has ever feigned some enthusiasm for what a significant other was enthusiastic about? Ever? Your'e all so very perfect and without sin! Her DH knows by now she's not all that keen on the cabin and he knows it makes her sick, but he's choosing to be a baby about it. He can suck it up and go on his own.[/quote]

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