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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Both you and your dh sound stubborn. Spend the weekend at home alone. But going forward, you two need to figure out a compromise. Also they wasn't cool that you lied to your dh that you liked the cabin when you didn't.[/quote] It's one thing to like a place once a year, but's completely different to be forced to likely it on a biweekly basis---presumably it's gotten moldier and more gross since then too. I literally can't figure out why your DH doesn't do any maintenance to remediate mold and weird smells. Next time he badgers you to go, bring a few gallons of Kilz, some paint, some curtains, a couple of doors etc and tell him it's a work weekend and no one leaves or fishes or recreates until it's done. Next trip, whatever you need to fix the plumbing issues (or hire someone), next trip, new furniture and rugs. Make this a place you want to be! Do the work to make it happen.[/quote] She said she "pretended to be charmed" even when she saw it only one in awhile. [/quote]
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