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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DH took the extreme activities and multiple affairs route in his mid-to-late 40s. It started with one-night stands while traveling for business. Then he went sky diving. Then he did some ultimate driving experience with race cars.  Then he flew a plane that went really fast.

He started traveling a ton for work and graduated to multiple girlfriends around the country. Around 3-6 at a time. They got too much to juggle, so he started with the luxury escorts. $1,000 per hour. Spent $20K one summer.

Then the gambling. Hiding thousands of dollars he’s lose at casinos.

His main motivation was that he didn’t want to miss out on any life experiences. Would say you only get one chance to do this life.

He’s been in therapy for years now and has done a 180. Somewhere along the way he realized he’d never find what he was looking for.  So much guilt, shame, and remorse. [/quote]

So you stayed with him throughout all of this?  That's some difficult stuff to process and then still stay.  How many years was he like this?  What changed his perspective at the end?[/quote]

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