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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think OP dislikes the fiancée for having an existing kid and not being well-off. [/quote]

But that doesn’t make OP wrong. Her brother looks like a simp paying for everything and for a kid who isn’t his. I’ve been in OP’s shoes and it sucks. Why do men do this to themselves?[/quote]

They do this because they fall in love and can’t imagine not spending their life with their partner (and kids). It’s is sweet and wonderful that he wants to be a family with her. Should single people with kids never marry again?  We don’t choose love, it chooses us. [/quote]

Life isn't a Hallmark movie. I know someone who married a single mom of FOUR and she ended up divorcing him even though he helped raise her brood. I think if OP's future SIL was helpful and had pitched in, then it would have been ok. But it's like she wanted OP and her family to wait on her and her daughter hand on foot. That really is a recipe for disaster. Talk about making a great first impression...not.[/quote]

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