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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What's odd is that he was already cleared to go on a four-day trip by himself. If he wanted to cheat with this woman, he could have done that without bringing the kid along as a witness. Maybe it was just to have someone to occupy the woman's kid, but doesn't seem like that would really free you up to hook up during the day.

But it would be impossible to forget that he invited someone else on the trip. That doesn't seem believable at all.

Yet he also must have known that his kid would tell OP about the woman being there.

The whole thing is so odd, but I also think the oddities point to it not being cheating because normally a cheater would be so much more careful (I would think). [/quote]

Thank you for all your answers. The kids are 9. The single mother does not have custody of the child and only see the kid a few time a year. So she had to stay with the kid. This is high touristic season and impossible to rent another place so if they wanted to stay together longer, they had to stay together. That would have been very odd for the other kid to be alone with the mum and my husband. In that context, bringing our kid, and saying everything was done because our kid wanted so much to stay with the other kid makes sense. We communicate regularly but my husband never mentioned anything until our kid did.[/quote]

Thanks. I agree it would have been odd for the kid to be alone with the other lady and your husband, but you would never have known if you own kid hadn't come along. That's what is so odd. I agree that all the other stuff is problematic, but it seems like he easily could have skated on this if your kid hadn't come along and told you about it. And he must have known your kid would tell you, which makes him not telling you all the weirder. It doesn't really add up as an affair, but it is weird.

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