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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Cosplaying about sports to have an identity or something to talk about or bond over without any other ties to the sport intrinsically is about *them,* PP.

Being a fan of Van Gogh but being unable to paint myself? Sure. Uber fan of Van Gogh that wears Van Gogh themed clothing, decorates my house all in Van Gogh themed tchotchkes, and turns conversational topics into discussion about how into Van Gogh I am, and bringing that up on a first date as a matter of identity, etc? Weird enough to be a red flag.

Don't read to much into "red flag." It just means a flag, or something to assess more closely, not a final judgment.

[i]Do[/i] read more into "uber" fan. I don't know if OP is an uber fan, but it indicates more than just an enthusiastic fan. [/quote]

Seems like reading too much into things is your specialty. How you went from OP mentioning a love of sports to her “cosplaying” is the epitome of reading into things! Your not seeing the irony is A RED FLAG.[/quote]

Yeah, you don't know how DCUM works.

I responded to someone who mentioned uber fans, and I agreed that uber fans (who don't play sports themselves) would be a red flag for me, too. I never said anything about OP, at least not until I just specifically said that I don't know if she is an uber fan or not.

There is more than one person in the conversation, PP. Actually, there are lots. It's an illuminating realization.[/quote]

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