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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most of these posts seem to be from the same angry female who thinks it’s not your business to show concern for a good friend. Typical DCUM. [/quote]

She's not showing concern. She's judging.  Friend isn't complaining she isn't attracting men and then not picking up when men are hitting on her, she's clearly expressing she's not interested.  How is it "concern" to think friend is "wasting" herself when she's expressing a clear preference.

If friend seemed unhappy or wanted something different, that'd be a concern.  But she hasn't expressed she wants anything different and OP speaking up is likely to result in the friend distancing herself from OP. [/quote]

Because it is out of the ordinary for a young man or woman not to have any desire to date. It’s not normal behavior for most people. OP is expressing concern. That’s what friends do. And if she is judging, still doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to see her friend happy.[/quote]

The OP [u]is[/u] judging,  and so are you.  :roll:

Plenty of people are asexual. While they may be the minority, they are still normal/ordinary.

The friend has never expressed being unhappy, so the OP should be thrilled that the friend is happy.

There is no reason for concern. Just because the friend has chosen a different path than the OP doesn't mean there is reason for concern.  This is like showing concern that a friend has chosen a different career; just because it is different doesn't mean it is wrong or cause for concern. [/quote]

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