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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]sorry, my response got lodged in the middle of your next diatribe, so here it is again, although you have no interest in hearing what any of us have to say unless we agree with you. not sure why you even came on here asking for advice.

For the record, I am an attractive person who just became pregnant with her third baby after the first try. You came on here asking for advice and now you are dismissing everyone's words, because you don't like what you are hearing. I agree, snarkiness is bad, but a lot of snarkiness comes out when the OP is blatantly naive to her own issues. I've said it before and I'll say it again, you keep wanting people to vilify your sister and let you off the hook. We are not talking to your sister, only you can change your behavior. A lot of people are reacting to you because you sound like a hostile, competitive, jealous person, you truly come across this way! [/quote]

For the record, it's not everyone. There were a couple of supportive posts that wondered why others were so snarky and harsh. Read carefully. You don't have to let me "off the hook." You just have to ask for clarification and I always provide it. I've said absolutely nothing that was hostile. I avoid my sister and that's not hostile, that's to protect myself from her mean-spiritednes.  I've said nothing to show I'm jealous. If I have privileges in my life and I admit to them on an anonymous board that doesn't mean I'm jealous or competitive. I'm acknowledging the obvious to ascertain a motivation for my sister's behavior.

And yes, it's okay to reject the "advice" on anonymous forums from strangers. That's any poster's prerogative. Sorry if it bugs you so much. But I didn't reject all the poster's advice either. Some were supportive and offered good advice.

I live contentedly and I don't want for anything in my life. So there's no motivation for jealousy or competitiveness. Sorry if that irritates you too.  [/quote]

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