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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]There is ... no way to get to know her[/quote] This is what SIL wants No other details matter SIL's "reasons" are excuses Don't address them, because it isn't going to change anything[/quote] I actually agree with this because I am the same way (not wanting to visit just because they are family, not wanting to talk on FaceTime etc) and I am Asian as well as my in laws lol. Not that they have offended me in a particular way or anything, I just don’t find the hassle worth it. You can perhaps suggest family vacations in places like Hawaii every few years that she might be interested in, but apart from that I’m pretty sure it’s all wasted time and effort. Ask your brother to bring the kids to see your parents once in a while when they’re older.[/quote]
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