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[quote=Anonymous]I'll go out on a limb here and say that maybe the rotten food story really is funny -- you said everyone laughs when he tells it, except for you -- so try to find the humor in there. No one is thinking less of you because of the story, and everyone has their own more or less embarrassing moments. That said, my DH does stuff like this all the time. I think it is a combo of narcissism and ADHD. I try not to get upset as so far this is only a minor annoyance in my life, and I finally have really internalized that I can only control my feelings and reactions (and not DH). It took many years but I feel much calmer now than I used to feel about things like this, which helps our relationship as DH doesn't feel that I'm always on him for things he says. Not a perfect solution, but there really is none here unless DH decides to change (ahem this is unlikely). Good luck![/quote]
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