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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yeah I agree that your arbitrary 3-month “deadline” (your words) are the problem. He’s vulnerable and out of his depth and you’re acting like some random, formal timeline is appropriate. Let him go, OP, he deserves way better.[/quote]

This is a bit much! OP has not done anything wrong.  Given their situation a 3-month deadline was wise. But since she was vocal about that she should be equally as vocal in words ( or actions) that she'd like their relationship to progress physically now. She can't expect him to read her mind. While what happened to her boyfriend was tragic, he's not OP's victim or a child in need of babying.  They just need to figure out the logistics of things which will require flexibility on both their parts and maybe slightly more on OP's side at least initially.  And really they have more than enough time for a sexual encounter given the time frame OP describes, but maybe he's not ready to have sex with another woman, and if that's the case he needs to be honest with OP.[/quote]

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